eI wanted to write a post about privacy, because I know you readers are aware that I have been trying to decide what to do with this new blog in that regard. My concern about having a public blog is not only a safety concern, but also an issue of respect for my kids. Honestly, I am not that concerned about safety, because the world of blogging is so huge, and I have so many other public identities. I just think that if someone were trying to track us down for some reason, they could do so by many other means, and blogging is not going to give it away. I really think the risk is minimal. So, I choose not to worry about that, though I am aware of it. The other concern I have is that on the blog, I publish publicly all kinds of information and pictures about my kids without their permission, and I've struggled with whether or not this is disrespectful to them. Something that may seem cute or funny to me may well be embarrassing to them. Or, something that seems right to share now may be regretful later on. It's not that I think my previous posts/blogs have been disrespectful, nor have I ever read a blog post of another parent that has seemed disrespectful. It's just something I want to consider.
So, what I've decided to do is keep the blog public (and yes, those of you who have asked, you may link it), but to be conscientious about how I choose content and where I choose to display it. I have only contacted family and friends personally who have asked to know about the blog. I will not publish the new address on my old blog or on my facebook page. Also, I am going to give my kids pet names, as I've seen on some other blogs, and I plan to have them more involved (at least the older ones) with the decisions about what to put on here. I will get their permission as much as possible. So from here on out, we have Moo, G-Bear, and Bug. These are real pet names that have come from various sources.
You have obviously spent some time thinking about the issue of privacy and your choice seems very wise.
ReplyDeleteI agree with the above. I've thought about this, too. And once or twice I've gone back and deleted a post because I figured if was asking if I should post it, it is probably best not to. I'm so thankful, though, that you're still blogging. I really look forward to reading and seeing your lives as you go about your days.
ReplyDeleteIt's smart to assume that what you post on the net is not really private. I think of being on the web as being like being in a public park. There might be a fence about it but people can see in... It's not a big deal, as long as you know you are outside. Anyway, good thinking.
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